{"id":2799,"date":"2021-04-16T22:34:51","date_gmt":"2021-04-16T21:34:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/?p=2799"},"modified":"2021-04-16T22:50:10","modified_gmt":"2021-04-16T21:50:10","slug":"a-scruffy-little-bear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/2021\/04\/16\/a-scruffy-little-bear\/","title":{"rendered":"A Scruffy Little Bear"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<!-- Quick Adsense WordPress Plugin: http:\/\/quickadsense.com\/ -->\n<div class=\"48e5397a39c6ea4ae31e40d674b2fea7\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:10px 0 10px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- july 2019 -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9380921822254336\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"9798147637\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"764\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/158408434_5439685946043343_5087431346996266211_o-764x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"2853\" data-link=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=2853\" class=\"wp-image-2853\"\/><figcaption>My Scruffy Little Bear <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve not really been in the mood for sewing lately certainly not quilting and yet I recently found a need to sew for the solace it brings. My Beloved and I are heartsore and bereft. The Boy has left home! On the day he was coming to collect all his belongings, I spent the morning packing up his things, trying not to cry. The hardest thing for me to swallow was he wanted his childhood teddies. He has moved out and come home again a couple of times, but I guess its really final when they take their childhood companions. He really has left home this time.  I&#8217;m fairly sure there are toys of mine still tucked away at my Mother&#8217;s house which I still think of as &#8220;home&#8221; but I have my childhood teddy Bear. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-3 is-layout-flex\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"882\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_5172-882x1024.jpg\" alt=\"My childhood tedy\" data-id=\"2867\" data-link=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=2867\" class=\"wp-image-2867\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_5172-882x1024.jpg 882w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_5172-258x300.jpg 258w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_5172-768x892.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_5172-640x743.jpg 640w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_5172-1200x1394.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><figcaption>60 years on and still here<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Once the packing was done, &nbsp;and while I waited for The Boy to arrive, I needed to find some calm. I settled down to listen to a podcast \u201c Bearly Begun, episode 4. &#8221; (you can find it on Spotify or <a href=\"https:\/\/anchor.fm\/bearlybegun\/episodes\">https:\/\/anchor.fm\/bearlybegun\/episodes<\/a> )<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are familiar with the BBC One TV program The Repair Shop you will know the two ladies who repair soft toys, not just bears, on that programme.&nbsp; (If you don\u2019t know The Repair Shop you are missing a delight, seriously it\u2019s one of the best , I wouldn\u2019t miss it, everything about it is wonderful, and I can\u2019t recommend it highly enough. If you are not in the UK, I think you can find it @netflix.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Bear Ladies had a project to suggest to their listeners, a free pattern to make a little teddy bear called Scruffy Duffy, well that nearly set me off crying again\u2026 Scruffy is the name of  The Boy\u2019s bear, which I\u2019d just packed up and said goodbye to, remembering the times I\u2019d read bedtime stories to The Boy and his Scruffy bear.  My Stepson and I had first bonded over making paper hats for his teddies from &#8216;The Dangerous Book for Boys&#8217; by Conn and Hal Iggulden, when he was 7 years old. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/158642577_5439686792709925_6400119051529418348_o-764x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2854\" width=\"600\" height=\"804\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/158642577_5439686792709925_6400119051529418348_o-764x1024.jpg 764w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/158642577_5439686792709925_6400119051529418348_o-224x300.jpg 224w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/158642577_5439686792709925_6400119051529418348_o-768x1029.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/158642577_5439686792709925_6400119051529418348_o-150x201.jpg 150w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/158642577_5439686792709925_6400119051529418348_o-600x804.jpg 600w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/158642577_5439686792709925_6400119051529418348_o-640x857.jpg 640w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/158642577_5439686792709925_6400119051529418348_o.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 984px) 61vw, (max-width: 1362px) 45vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption>Scruffy little Bear in progress<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I thought maybe making this scruffy little bear could help me; having something to do and to think about would maybe help to get my sewing mojo back, and I could learn something new. So I downloaded the pattern, ordered the bits and bobs required to put it together, found a piece of fabric from my stash, and began. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"text-align:left\">  Scruffy Duffy belongs to  The Teddy Bear Ladies, if you are interested in making one you can find the free pattern here, <a href=\"http:\/\/bearitinmind.com\/ \">http:\/\/bearitinmind.com\/ <\/a>   and images of bears which have been made from the pattern can be found on their Pinterest account <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.co.uk\/teddybearladies\/\">https:\/\/www.pinterest.co.uk\/teddybearladies\/<\/a>,  there is also an instagram account <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/theteddybearladies\/\">https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/theteddybearladies\/<\/a>   where  you can follow The Teddy bear ladies. &nbsp;Do watch them on The Repair Shop too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what did I learn while making this Scruffy Little Bear? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-5 is-layout-flex\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"876\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/158195589_5439687946043143_7970237828394422442_o-2-876x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"2865\" data-link=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=2865\" class=\"wp-image-2865\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/158195589_5439687946043143_7970237828394422442_o-2-876x1024.jpg 876w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/158195589_5439687946043143_7970237828394422442_o-2-257x300.jpg 257w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/158195589_5439687946043143_7970237828394422442_o-2-768x898.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/158195589_5439687946043143_7970237828394422442_o-2-640x748.jpg 640w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/158195589_5439687946043143_7970237828394422442_o-2.jpg 923w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><figcaption>Now there&#8217;s an idea.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>I learned that\nmy hand sewing could do with more practice, that I\u2019m not good at judging a half\ncentimetre seam allowance by eye, but if you mark the seam allowance on your\nthumbnail, that works. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I learned that I\u2019m not good at stuffing soft toys, but practice may make perfect, and a pencil helps. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I learned how to create a cotter pin joint; again practice may improve technique, thankfully I have some round nose pliers in my kitchen drawer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I learned that mohair, despite being more expensive than free fabric from my stash, may have been a better choice, and the pile would likely cover a multitude of inaccurate stitching sins. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I learned that I have arthritis developing in my thumb joints, and that I need varifocal glasses. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-7 is-layout-flex\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/scruffy-and-montie-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Monty and Scruffy little bear\" data-id=\"2864\" data-link=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=2864\" class=\"wp-image-2864\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/scruffy-and-montie-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/scruffy-and-montie-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/scruffy-and-montie-768x576.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/scruffy-and-montie-150x113.jpg 150w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/scruffy-and-montie-600x450.jpg 600w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/scruffy-and-montie-640x480.jpg 640w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/scruffy-and-montie-1200x900.jpg 1200w, http:\/\/www.mycrosspatch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/scruffy-and-montie.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><figcaption>his childhood companions<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Most importantly and with much reflection, I learned that you cannot keep your children close, they will leave home and you have to let them go with an open heart.\u00a0 I just hope he will let us know where he is and what he is up to, that he will come and see us occasionally. \u00a0And if he does decide to join the Army as he says he will, perhaps he\u2019ll need a foster home for his beloved childhood friends, Monty and Scruffy, I do hope so. <\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; 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